TomZ Issues Warning to Providers

I’ve heard from three different providers that TomZ, the owner of Midwesttimez, has warned providers that if they post on “other boards” they’ll be personally disappointing him. This sounds like a threat to me. And, take a look at this COMMENT to my blog that several people have said was made by the elusive Mr. Z. The commentator tries to scare people off without any facts.

MiAdultDestination has already stated that they’re not trying to compete with Tom’s board. They’re trying to attract those that have been excluded by Midwesttimez – ( which has a very limited membership). If some of the seasoned hobbyists find the new board appealing so what? Why does TomZ care so much? It seems to me that another board will actually help him by keeping his board exclusive.

I say we need an open membership board if the hobby is going to continue  in the same manner as it has in the past. And, if this new board is the one, then TomZ should be encouraging people to post on it instead of fighting it.

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New Michigan Board Started www.miadultdestination.com

With the nincompoops who run Midwesttmez.com banning anyone with an opinion that’s different than there’s, it’s refreshing to know that there is a new board in Michigan – Miadultdestination.com.

You can check it out HERE. I’ve looked around and there are many recognizable screen names from previous Michigan boards. Like MIdwesttimez.com, the board administrators don’t identify themselves. But, they’re taking a different approach than Midwesttimez.com. Here’s their welcome message:

Welcome to MiAdultdestination – a destination for your adult pursuits.

We’re not looking to be a replacement for what you’re currently doing – just another option.

How we’re different from the others is that we’re going to be an inclusive member driven site, not ego driven. The administrators here aren’t looking to drive this or feed egos. In fact you’ll likely won’t see many posts from us. We’re just looking to provide infrastructure so information can be exchanged so informed decisions can be made. We’re open to suggestions. If they make sense and can be implemented we’ll do it. If it doesn’t make sense or isn’t fair to all parties, we won’t.

Common sense will be the rule and generally it will be lightly moderated. Don’t be a troll, don’t be a thief or take advantage of people. Try to help and don’t ridicule the newbs. If you’re a db or a problem you’ll be shown the door. Above all play fair.

We’re going to have a light hand on the wheel. We will try to help sort things out when the inevitable problems arise – but ultimately you are responsible for your own actions and situations you put yourself into.

This is a refreshing change from the last two Michigan boards. They’ve also mentioned that they won’t sponsor parties, although members can do this, and they’ve registered the board outside the US.  So, is it safe? I’d say it’s at least as safe as TomZ’s board Midwesttimez.com. And, judging only from what the moderators have written so far, they seem to have thought things through and it appears that they’re determined not to make the same mistakes that Midwesttimez and MIcompanions made.

As always, proceed with caution. But, hopefully this will be an inclusive and transparent alternative to what’s available today. My only is wish is that they do not build private and exclusive areas. These have  a chilling effect on open and candid discussion and transparency. An alternative would be a totally separate board which required a separate log in.

This includes any “provider only” areas which should be run as separate boards by the women themselves. Otherwise who’s to say that these Admins will be any different than TomZ and Ralphie1 who reportedly read the women’s only area of Midwesttmez and report back to the “He Man Woman Haters Club.”

I hope miadultdestination thrives as an inclusive and transparent board. Contrary to what we’ve seen over the past year, there are thoughtful and intelligent people in the hobby who are capable of running a fair and unbiased site. The problem is, it’s become a public service as opposed to a money making opportunity and that’s a tough sell to most busy people.

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Why Are Providers Saying Midwesttimez.com is Not For Them?

This post is only rumor and  speculation. I don’t have any solid evidence that Midwesttimez is any less popular than it ever was – I only have anecdotal evidence.

For the past several weeks, I’ve heard both anonymously and from actual providers – five different providers to be exact – that they can’t make any money on Midwesttimez.com. The hobbyists aren’t booking appointments, the hobbyists book appointments but don’t show up and,  the hobbyists are trying to squeeze bargain basement deals or steal time from them.

Anyone who has read the boards for very long knows that almost all full time providers bitch about these things. So, what’s different this time? Maybe nothing. But, I did see that TomZ’s former main squeeze Jessica Star has announced that she will no longer post on Midwesttimez.com although she plans to remain in the hobby in the same capacity as always – she just won’t be available on Midwesttimez.com. Two other providers have told me the same thing in private.

So, what going on behind the scenes at Midwesttimez.com

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Another Provider Accused of Bilking Hobbyist

I received an e-mail from someone with a warning that Haven Leigh, a provider who posts on Midwesttimez.com has a track record of getting close to clients and then convincing them to empty their bank accounts for her. Sadly, this is a common occurrence on the the Michigan boards.

But, I’d assign as much blame to the hobbyists who voluntarily empty their bank accounts for these preying prostitutes. Tom Z is a perfect example of how hobbyists get too involved with providers and then mistakenly assume there’s more to the relationship than simply an exchange of money for sex.

It happens all the time but rarely gets reported. Thanks to the person who sent me this. Maybe some others will see themselves and take corrective action.

Hello Sid,
I wanted to send this over to you and remain anonymous please. Thanks for a place to post that doesn’t get a person banned for telling the truth.

I wish I had this warning before I got taken for a ride so please know that this is serious. Haven Leigh is nothing short of a gold digger. She will fuck you over, take your money and try to force you to close your hobby account and live happily ever after with her. All the while she is still fucking for money. It’s all bullshit. I know of a few guys that this has happened to. If it were just me, I’d chalk it up to a bad experience and let it go but now that I know there are others I refuse to stay quiet. I want others to be warned. When things turn sour or don’t go her way she will threaten to out you, cuss you out, scream at you, show up at your place unannounced, etc.

I have talked to a couple of reputable girls and they let me know that she confided in them that she barebacks a couple of her clients as well. Thank goodness I dodged that bullet but I sure would be getting tested If you are one of those guys.
She has not resurfaced that I know of since her last victim but in case she gets desperate for that mortgage payment or something: be warned.
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The Devolution of Midwesttimez Continues

While I was living my life away from the Internet, I received an interesting e-mail. The same content was posted as a comment to another blog entry here, but it’s an interesting comment so I’m posting it here as well.

You’ll see that the note tells the story of how an emotionally unstable team of moderators have become paranoid over losing control of their site. Midwesttimez had a promising start. But, as time has passed, the owners have let their personal biases and emotions affect their decision making. And, the results are an amusing example of how kooks like TomZ, Ralphie1, and Otherguy can’t be trusted to run a site.

Thanks to the anonymous person who provided this.

I have stood for too long on the sideline watching Tomz and company build a little community only to have them lock everyone inside the gates and burn it to the ground. I did not want to say anything to rock the boat, but these last few days have been over the top with all the bannings and talk of shutting it all down if we dont show the proper respect towards Tomz and his weak willed friends, and I use that word loosely. Honestly, the place was not all that bad till MIC came down. Once that happened peoples true colors started to come out. Tomz was able to play nice when people had other places to go and girls had more than one viable board to post on for work. With that taken away he was able to start slithering around and playing games just like before.

More than one girl has told me that during the spring and summer he would just blow up their phones and inbox on a daily basis. Asking how they were doing and when they can meet up along with spreading all the lastest gossip he could gather. He became obsessive about it to the point where you almost feel bad for him, almost. Not sure if he has some sort of mental issues or just an ego thing, but it is not healthy. I know that once Jessica Star started seeing that kid El Luchador he lost his damn mind. That was one of his girls, notice how the other two have already left the board, and he “loved” here. How dare this kid try and steal her away? Tomz went on a personal rampage making up story and story about those two. He used every trick in the book that he could and Im sure he called her up on the phone crying about it as well.
It all really went to hell when Jessica and Jasmine decided to have a party. Word is that he gave advice to the girls on how to have a good party, like he has a clue, only to turn around and post in the men’s section that they were trying to show him up. He was the only one to make a big stink about it and bases on the other posts no thought it was a big deal. Once those posts got leaked he was caught for doing what he has always done. Being a two-faced turncoat. He was trying to play up the friend card the girls, but he saw it as an affront to his ego so he behind their backs were he thought it would be safe to run them into the mud. Surprise, Surprise to see that both of those girls have been banned in the past few weeks. See girls dont play by his rules and he will cut you down at the knees so your business will suffer.
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Trouble in Paradise? Midwesttimez Playboy Angers Prostitute

Resident Midwesttimez.com playboy and crybaby Caveman irritated provider Jazmin when he wrote a review of his zip lining date with one of Jazmin’s competitors. With providers fighting to spend time with him,  either Caveman is one heck of a cocksman or there’s such a shortage of paying johns on Midwesttimez.com that business is suffering. Either way, check out the review and Jazmin’s churlish comment. It’s a fun read.

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« on: September 27, 2014, 06:07:19 PM »
I have seen this sexy lady multiple times and decided to go outside the box for our next appointment. In conversation Niylah had mentioned she had always wanted to go zip lining. Taking notes, I figured out a way to incorporate it into an appointment and off we went.
We started with our favorite place, Bubbly Tub and Tan for a hot tub rendezvous, a bottle of bubbly and lots of fun  ;), then it was off to Howell (closest zip lining center to Detroit) where we soared over water, hills and through the trees. The weather was terrific and Niylah thoroughly enjoyed herself as did I. If you have never zip lined, I highly recommend it. They have two guides who assist and accompany you on the trip. Everyone was extremely friendly and we were treated like one of the family.
After an exhausting day, we stopped off for dinner and drinks.

While Niylah has not been active on the board for a couple of weeks, she will be back soon. She is a lot of fun and a great appointment. Thanks for a terrific day sexy lady.

If anyone is interested in information about zip lining, shoot me a PM and I can give you all the info….very reasonable.

The first pic is Niylah climbing the ladder and getting attached to the line to begin her descent.

The second pic is Niylah zipping over some water.

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« Reply #1 on: September 29, 2014, 11:41:51 AM »
If this wasn’t one of the BEST days in my life, then i don’t know what was.. I had an absolute amazing time, every time i have an appointment with Cavie he never cease to amazes me, i was totally scared, but ecstatic and elated like a little kid.. i too recommend this place, and sorry i havent been so active, in the process of moving next month so ill be doing incall from home in the suburban area, but even when im not posting i am always available, just a text, phone call, email or Pm away..! Thanks again for another great appointment cavie
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« Reply #2 on: Today at 12:39:58 AM »
 So this is the third time you’ve said we can’t get together. Yet, turn around and post reviews. Sorry, but I’m not so certain Jess and I want you to our haloween party. We enjoy honest gents.
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Midwesttimez.com Not Good Source of Business?

I’ve been hearing from a few providers that Midwesttimez.com has not been a great source of business. The general theme from these providers is that there are too many girls and not enough paying customers. And, those customers that do try to book almost always want some sort of deal.

Now, here’s a thread by Brook Meadows lamenting the fact that she’s got no business. The whining is fun. The idiotic comments from the members are fun. But, I’m guessing she’s not unique and that unless you’re willing to accommodate the He Man Woman Haters at Midwesttimez.com, you’ll have a tough time making money there. I’d love to hear some of the requests that Brook Meadows is objecting to. This stuff almost never reaches the light of day. And, these guys get to continue their shenanigans. Providers, feel free to post your complaints here. We’d all love to hear about them.

Update: Recently, there have been complaints from several providers about the hobbyists from Midwesttimez.com booking appointments and then not showing up. Joe Blow aka Ralphie1, the cretinous moderator of Midwesttimez.com has threatened his members, but this hasn’t been effective. The bad behavior continues. Seems like there are too many providers and not enough paying hobbyists to go around. How long can MIdwesttimez last if there are no customers stepping up to pay for services? Maybe TomZ and Ralphie will have to stop getting freebees from grizzled old whore “Rumour” in exchange for free reign of the board.  After all, she can’t keep working for free can she? And neither can the others. Soon,  all but the most desperate providers will abandon Midwesttimez.com. Can the end be near?

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Might have to move on :(
« on: September 16, 2014, 08:59:24 PM »
It seems as though I may not be able to continue as a service provider.  I’ve been doing my thing for many years and have never ever been in this position but things have been extremely rough. I am not able to book any appointments and business has been almost non-existent for awhile. I wish I had the answer but I don’t. I hope things turn around and start to pick up and it will have to be soon but if they don’t I won’t be around much longer!   I can’t imagine having to say goodbye because it’s soo much fun and I absolutely love what I do! You’ll never get to meet such an array of awesome people! Both providers and gents!!! Thanks to everyone I’ve gotten to know!
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« Reply #1 on: September 16, 2014, 09:44:51 PM »
Hate to see you  leave have any Idea why ?

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« Reply #2 on: September 16, 2014, 10:00:33 PM »

My post is meant to inform the guys I may not be around at this rate.  I’m in no way interested in your “advice “. Please,  if you’d like to see me stick around then just see me  : )  Again,  I’m not posting to solicit your advice.  Just thinking out loud :) Although I appreciate your concern, it just may be my time to move on if that’s where the universe wants me :)

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Re: Might have to move on :(
« Reply #3 on: September 16, 2014, 10:22:32 PM »

And funnily enough, I don’t think he was offering any advice.

Just a concerned comment.

I’m suddenly feeling a chill for some reason…

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« Reply #4 on: September 16, 2014, 10:36:15 PM »

Hmmmm Kilroy…. you’re definitely mistaken. I wasn’t in any way referring to Good Luck’s reply. He is a cool dude in my book!  It was a precursor to all of the concerned guys in my inbox telling me to lower my rate. I don’t know you Kilroy and you DEFINITELY don’t know me because there’s nothing “chill” (except the fact that I’m laid back) or cold about me. I’m a very warm person. So please don’t try to start drama where there is none. Please, this is my ANNOUNCEMENT. Its not a discussion thread open to those who don’t know me or anything about me to throw shade my way….

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« Reply #5 on: September 16, 2014, 10:52:59 PM »

Well, I may be mistaken. But from reading your response it isn’t hard to come up with the conclusion I did.

This is a discussion board, and while you may think you can control the direction of a thread, stating that something is “not” up for discussion is the surest way to have the opposite effect.

YMMV

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« Reply #6 on: September 16, 2014, 11:01:07 PM »
I respect her desire to do as she wants and test the market in other employment capacities. Perhaps it is best…either she finds something better or will confirm that even though this business can be fickle it still is better than what else is out there. Several ladies have very good track records I would encourage you to reach out to those that may help you. Good luck in whatever your decision is.
this not intended as advise. Just food for thought.
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« Reply #7 on: September 16, 2014, 11:07:34 PM »
I have a great track record as well ;)
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« Reply #8 on: September 16, 2014, 11:12:17 PM »

I have a great track record as well ;)

By track record I meant solid business clients that repeat and are regular. Anyways not trying to advise you, only to keep a well reviewed long standing provider in the game. That decision is yours my lady.

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« Reply #9 on: September 16, 2014, 11:48:26 PM »

The point of this post is only to let my friends know what is floating around in my mind. If you don’t know me here’s a little background….  I’ve been a SP for 12 years. I’ve worked nationally and have been able to travel all over the country.  The cities I have heavily toured have been Chicago,  Honolulu (Waikiki), Las Vegas, San Fransisco, Los Angelos, Houston and Dallas…. can’t forget Detroit.

I know this industry and I know it very well.  I am not interested in reaching out to anyone…  I have been around and know the deal, to say the least. What I’ve ran into most is trying to be convinced into doing things that aren’t the way I want to be represented. I’m not interested in compromising my “style” of dates. I like to provide a pampered feeling in a very comfortable environment and I like to be very, very thorough in pleasing my man.  I’m assuming Kilroy and Dude don’t know me or my reputation and there may be a lot of gents on this board who don’t either so this post is for you. I don’t need help with running my business,  it may be time for me to just run along. It seems as though there have been a lot more men speaking to me in ways that aren’t so respectful,  canceling like it’s just no big deal, being pushy during appointments with things I’m not comfortable doing and then the haggling… I’ve had more than one guy tell me what they were going to give me period. Research me, I’m a great provider.  I know I am and put 110% in it.  You’re not going to get a lot of ladies who are willing to speak up about these issues but like I said, it may just be my time. I’m not worried as those who know me know that I PROVIDE AND PROVIDE WELL!!!

My days of touring with such intensity are very much in the past. I have a family and a side business that keeps me home for the most part. To be successful in any business you have to change with the times,  or maybe seek another area that’s conducive to what you’re trying to do. And as of now I won’t be compromising how I conduct myself and have no plans to relocate in the near future, so Hey! But who knows,  things could change and biz may get better.  That is why I posted what I posted instead of the usual “I’M RETIRING ” post,  only to reappear 2 months later with the “I’m back! ” post.

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« Reply #10 on: September 16, 2014, 11:55:04 PM »

Maybe the Tigers will get into the playoffs.

I might go to one of their games.

I may see someone hit a homerun.

There is a chance I’ll catch a foul ball.

If they play bad—I don’t know what is for sure on the outcome.

I wish them good luck in the game and hope they do well.

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« Reply #11 on:Today at 12:02:12 AM »

Well, I may be mistaken. But from reading your response it isn’t hard to come up with the conclusion I did.

This is a discussion board, and while you may think you can control the direction of a thread, stating that something is “not” up for discussion is the surest way to have the opposite effect.

YMMV

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Yes,  but that is why there are different sections…  and this is announcements…  Not General Discussions… where people want to discuss things nor is this the Ask Him or Ask Her section.  This board has different areas for different purposes.  This section is called Announcements where, generally, providers announce things such as changes to their business,  new phone numbers,  new websites or maybe changes to their travel plans. And that was my intention…  to make an announcement about a change. Also, the OP usually does get a say in the direction that their post goes. Taking over and changing that direction of their thread is called “hijacking ” and sweety pie, it is frowned upon.

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« Reply #12 on:Today at 12:14:01 AM »

At times, silence can be golden – or not.  I’m still trying to figure that one out. Where’s the popcorn?

And Jake….Go Tig’s, and hope you catch that foul ball during the winning final game.  It would look great on the shelf next to the ’47 Knuckle gas tank.  :-)

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I am just admiring on how many people the OP has discouraged from contacting her for an appointment, with just her comments. Very interesting. On the other hand things are not so peachy out there in the real world. There are a lot of people out there that have to make some tough  decisions.

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« Reply #14 on:Today at 01:44:22 AM »

I am just admiring on how many people the OP has discouraged from contacting her for an appointment, with just her comments. Very interesting. On the other hand things are not so peachy out there in the real world. There are a lot of people out there that have to make some tough  decisions.

Then unfortunately I have not expressed myself properly. I am not trying to offend anyone. I’m just not interested in comprising a mind blowing experience where I give my all to and instead deliver an ok experience.  That is what a client will get if I did ask 150 vs 250…. I wouldn’t be able to book a room that feels a bit nicer, and I probably wouldn’t put forth that 110% into a client because I’d have to double the amount of people I visit with. Appointments require feeling fresh and full of energy to give a great experience.  I’m sorry, but seeing 4 guys in one day is not my forte`. I like making a gentleman feel special and I want it to be genuine.  I want to Cum for real and not fake it because I already had 3 others before you. That is why I am not going to take the advice to lower my rates.  And that’s really a shame if a hobbyist is discouraged to see me because I am unwilling to deal with rudeness,  multiple cancellations, last minute cancellations…. obviously things happen but it’s not cool when someone says sorry can’t come, like it’s no biggie. I shouldn’t have to deal with men who want to rub their uncovered package all over my uncovered box. It’s too bad I have to feel expected to take whatever donation a man feels he’s entitled to because he’s seen me a couple times in the past.

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